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Life SHOULD NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well- preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, wine in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally WORN out and screaming "WOO HOO - WHAT A RIDE!!!"

Saturday, March 24, 2007

The Goddess Party

HAPPY SPRING EVERYONE !!!

The party was wonderful, Nikki I so wish you could have been there. We all met at my favorite restaurant, The Golden Buddha http://www.goldenbuddhaphx.com/. I love it there so much. We had a nice dinner, and everyone got to know each other. We sat right by the back window by the balcony and the pond. There was someone playing the piano. We stayed from about 7:45 till about 9. Then we all went to my house. Our little procession from the restaurant, traveling one whole half a mile to my house managed to lose Jenn at a red light. But I called her and she found my house. We went outside to the back yard, I had dry ice with lots of "smoke", and candles. It was extremely windy. The candle wouldn't stay lit. I was a little upset about this, but Heather thought the wind was wonderful. Perfect I think was the word she used. And when I think about it, it was perfect. Very windy. I thought my canopy was going to blow over. Heather W brought me a present. A little bag with a wonderful book bag with a wiccan symbol on it, a windchime with little pentagrams on it, and a spell casting candle. She got everything in Sedona. It makes me feel so good that she would think of me. I love all of the things.So I got out the wine and the chocolate and started the fire and we sat and talked for a little while. The kids were so curious, I let them come out for awhile. Lyndsey sat in the window and watched for a long time. I let her help a little, and let her come outside and sit with us for awhile. Then she went to my mom's for the night. And Ryan was so excited about the party for days. He had been saying he was the "Giver" of the party with me. So he kept coming up to me saying, "Mom, I'm the Giver." He helped alot. He brought sodas to us, got more wine, and just helped in general. It made him so happy. I don't want to be one of those moms that sequester their kids to their rooms when Mommy's friends come over. So the kids got to stay for awhile.I gave everyone the little "books" I had made (info on henna, tarot,the Equinox, etc). Then after a little while I did a tarot reading on Heather M. I am so glad that she was still pregnant and got to come. She was over 36 weeks at that point, ( 8 months), and ready to go. I am so glad she was able to come. We did the reading a little different too, I didn't know the question. This is a very interesting technique - this way I can't read anything into it. And she said it was very accurate. It was really weird, the whole time we were doing tarot the wind was blowing violently. We actually had to hold the cards down with pieces of chocolate. As soon as we stopped it stopped. A little while later, maybe 90 minuts later, we picked up the deck to do another reading, this time on Heather W, and the wind started up again. Weird.No one else had a question, so Jenn did a past life reading on Heather M also. Which also turned out to be very strange. We drank more wine, talked some more, got to know each other better. Loida had to leave after a little while, actually it was probably about 1 am. We chatted a little more. Jenn left after that cause she had to catch a plane the next day. Then we did henna tattoos. I did one on Heather M's arm, Heather W's leg, and Sydney's arm. The all turned out pretty good. Royce came out every so often and joined us. At about 1:30 we did out spells. Both Heathers did one. It was the spell to strengthen the bond between you and your kids. It was very dark, and so perfect. They got to take the little charm home. I walked them both out to their cars and gave hugs and said goodbye. Then Matt and Tyler and Sydney helped me clean up a little.

Royce was so wonderful. He watched all 8 kids, mine and Loida's, kept them quiet and got them pizza. He is so wonderful. Thank you so much Royce for helping me have my party.

The whole night was wonderful. A whole celebration of friends and femaleness and wine and spirituality. I just wish Robin and Nikki could have come. I'm glad that Loida got to meet Jenn and the Heathers, that I got to see Heather W - it has been SO long, that Heather M got to have a nice night with me before she has her baby, and that I got to see Jenn outside of work.

Everything was windy, mysitcal, cloudy, dark, warm, intoxicating, magical and sensual.

I am going to do another one at the Autumnal Equinox. I'm already thinking about it.

I took pictures and will post them here when I get them developed.

I love my friends. Next to my family, they are my greatest posession.


Thoughts of Fallen Angel at 8:09 AM

4 Comments:

Trailady said...

Hi Angel, Glad you had a nice time with your friends. I always was more of a tom-boy kind, but being in MofM really helped me embrace having girlfriends and doing "girl-stuff". Friends are important and femininity is okay.

Men can't seem to figure us out. Hey- sometimes we can't figure ourselves out, but if we talk with other ladies, they can help us sort things out. Being a women is scary, at times rewarding, but rarely boring. ;o)

3/25/2007 5:02 AM
Anonymous said...

I wish I could've been there!! I was sending thoughts to you.
I have an abscess in my tooth and look like a hamster right now. Were it not for heavy duty antibiotics and pain meds I would still be howling.
Oh, and I've come up with a title for the book I'm' going to write about the way we were brought up...it's called Mandatory Joy. Did you get my email? It was from work. I thought you'd laugh.
Anyways, I'm soooo glad it went well. Sounds like the Wind portion of the area really wanted to be present for you. (What side is that? Is that north? If so, maybe it was me!!)
love ya
Nic

3/25/2007 9:23 AM
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3/26/2007 11:23 AM
Trailady said...

Hey Angel,

Just read something you wrote about on Gabrielles blog in response to her abortion post. I just want to say that I'm totally with you on the finding Jesus in places other than church. I'm totally thereand know what you mean! People go where they're accepted. If church is cold, you can certainly find more warmth in a pub. They create starving people by self-righteous attitudes, then condemn them for going where they do feel wanted.

NO pregnant woman should ever be harassed, rejected or abandoned- no matter what the circumstances surrounding her. You did NOT deserve that. I'm soooooo sorry.
People talked about me too, even though I was married. "What is she thinking having all those kids?"

We lived far away from family. The people at church knew I was sick, sick, sick & weak the first 4 mos of my pregnancies- often throwing up 6-8 times a day. Nobody ever offered to come help with the kids or cooked a meal for us. Then I had C-sections all 4 times. NOBODY showed up to help me during my recoveries. Just assumed that someone else would, I guess. Jay's Grandma came from PA for the first 2 wks postpartum each time, but after she left, I was barely back on my feet, but I was on my own. This was particularly difficult when #4 came along. Don't know how I managed, but I somehow did.

!!!!! Hugs to you !!!!!

3/26/2007 11:26 AM

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